ADVERTHOLOGY

Tuesday, October 23, 2012

stop trying to control everybody





This is a definite-method to stay happier. We must stop trying to control everyone around us - their behaviors, their attitudes, the way they speaks, the way they dress, what they eat, etc - and trying to control people by our expectation over them. In the first place, they are not you, so why are you trying to clone everybody to be like you? You are not perfect, so why are you trying to control everybody around you? Let people be free to be who they are , and they will accept you as who you are.


credit : 7 steps to un-complicate your life by Peter Ng

16 comments:

Nong Andy said...

kali ni mudah pula aku faham. tak payah buka kamus hehehehe...

nurdani said...

totally agreed.

Ahmad Arba'in Ali said...

ok this is thoughtful. :)

Ooh Deo said...

do not push someone to like your stuff, just let them find it and like it if they want to, that will leads to respecting each other..

Gillette Flores said...

Exactly.
Indeed, the more you trying to control people around you, the more you trying to clone people around you to be like you, you will never realize that, soon you gonna lost somewhere.
Like seriously.

Sharing, '100 ways to motivate yourself' by Steve Chandler is a good book. ;)

My Little Diary said...

agreed

dania said...

haa..betul la tu

Felly Sophia said...

Suka ini. :)

Unknown said...

I'm a Sagittarius and i love freedom.... ^.^

Unknown said...

sabar je lh.anggap itu peringatan utk diri kt snd.supaya tidak bersikap sedemikian

ஜ miss klanika ஜ said...

stop control but not to stop care

Azlan Strider said...

agreed bro..i think is better to mix up with the things around us rather than take control of it..hehe..actually its hard to control everything especially involvong human beings..hehehe

Regards,
-Strider-

reenapple said...

Ok. I agree. Maybe it's better if we control ourselves. Hurmm.

Evagurl said...

Yeah be yourself and let the other be themselves! kan? :)

feyza said...

indeed

but i really like to control DUNIA

fatian athiea said...

"why are you trying to clone everybody to be like you ? " love this !

btol.. kita bukan perfect sgt nak semua org ikut kita.. dan kita bukan manusia pertama atau Muhammad untuk diikuti ..